sandandwater: (my head hurts like omg)
sandandwater ([personal profile] sandandwater) wrote2008-12-29 03:31 pm
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I'm only going to reference this once.

I left New York. I ended my relationship with Rory for reasons known quite well to him. I need space and time to sort some things out and I can't do that while being in a relationship with someone.

So yes, I'm the 'bad guy' here. How dare I need to put myself first for a while? I'm not going to discuss the particulars, it's not anyone's business other than my own, but does anyone honestly believe I'd leave the man I love without good reason?

Just because I made the decision to leave doesn't mean I'm not hurting too.

[identity profile] deep-red-bells.livejournal.com 2008-12-29 09:34 pm (UTC)(link)
...Sounds like some people need to mind their own damn business.

I'm sorry to hear that, sweetheart.

[identity profile] sand-andwater.livejournal.com 2008-12-29 09:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you, Bee.

I suppose I don't have the right to be angry at Rory but the fact that he had to have his father make a public statement that I "left recently to sort [my] life out and doesn't look to be returning any time soon"...

Well, that hurts. A lot.

[identity profile] deep-red-bells.livejournal.com 2008-12-29 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
That isn't fair to you at all.

[identity profile] sand-andwater.livejournal.com 2008-12-29 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
He's deleted it now, I suppose he wasn't thinking that it would upset me.

[identity profile] deep-red-bells.livejournal.com 2008-12-29 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Sometimes people don't think things through like they should.

[identity profile] sand-andwater.livejournal.com 2008-12-29 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
And sometimes, even when they do, no one believes that they did.

[identity profile] deep-red-bells.livejournal.com 2008-12-29 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
That's true as well.