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sandandwater) wrote2008-12-29 03:31 pm
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I'm only going to reference this once.
I left New York. I ended my relationship with Rory for reasons known quite well to him. I need space and time to sort some things out and I can't do that while being in a relationship with someone.
So yes, I'm the 'bad guy' here. How dare I need to put myself first for a while? I'm not going to discuss the particulars, it's not anyone's business other than my own, but does anyone honestly believe I'd leave the man I love without good reason?
Just because I made the decision to leave doesn't mean I'm not hurting too.
I left New York. I ended my relationship with Rory for reasons known quite well to him. I need space and time to sort some things out and I can't do that while being in a relationship with someone.
So yes, I'm the 'bad guy' here. How dare I need to put myself first for a while? I'm not going to discuss the particulars, it's not anyone's business other than my own, but does anyone honestly believe I'd leave the man I love without good reason?
Just because I made the decision to leave doesn't mean I'm not hurting too.
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I'm sorry to hear that, sweetheart.
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Rory didn't do what he did out of anger, or to paint you as the bad guy or because he thought you aren't hurting. All that was on his mind was how he'd feel if he said nothing, and the two of you won.
Maybe that's insufficient reason. But there was no malicious or hurtful intent behind it.
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ooc: Not that I have all that much time for tagging or any idea when I'll be back online, but.
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