sandandwater: (my head hurts like omg)
sandandwater ([personal profile] sandandwater) wrote2008-12-29 03:31 pm
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I'm only going to reference this once.

I left New York. I ended my relationship with Rory for reasons known quite well to him. I need space and time to sort some things out and I can't do that while being in a relationship with someone.

So yes, I'm the 'bad guy' here. How dare I need to put myself first for a while? I'm not going to discuss the particulars, it's not anyone's business other than my own, but does anyone honestly believe I'd leave the man I love without good reason?

Just because I made the decision to leave doesn't mean I'm not hurting too.

[identity profile] deep-red-bells.livejournal.com 2008-12-29 09:34 pm (UTC)(link)
...Sounds like some people need to mind their own damn business.

I'm sorry to hear that, sweetheart.

[identity profile] a-chaitlin.livejournal.com 2008-12-30 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
Pippa ... I apologize if this seems like butting in, but I'm saying it anyway because it needs saying. What you do with it after is up to you.

Rory didn't do what he did out of anger, or to paint you as the bad guy or because he thought you aren't hurting. All that was on his mind was how he'd feel if he said nothing, and the two of you won.

Maybe that's insufficient reason. But there was no malicious or hurtful intent behind it.

[identity profile] winchesterjerk.livejournal.com 2008-12-30 03:48 am (UTC)(link)
Hey. Not that I have all that much experience, but as having been the guy... told to go, more or less, I wouldn't quite say it ends up involving a 'bad guy'. Some things just... end up certain ways.

ooc: Not that I have all that much time for tagging or any idea when I'll be back online, but.